Valentine’s Day Around The World | By Parveena Yousuf (@pxrvxnx)
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When we think about Valentine’s Day, the usual things that come to mind are bouquets of roses, heart-shaped chocolates, and candlelit dinners. But love is a universal language, and every part of the world has its own way of saying ‘I love you’. Around the world, this day of love comes with its own unique customs and twists. Curious to know more? Let’s take a trip around the globe to discover some of the love traditions out there!
Japan
Unlike the usual stigma of men showering their partners with gifts, it's the ladies who take charge on 14 February in Japan! Yes, that’s right — women are the ones who give chocolates to their partners, but with a sweet twist. Every type of chocolate has a different meaning. Honmei-choco (true-feeling chocolate) is handmade and reserved for romantic partners, crushes, and husbands. Then there’s Giri-choco (obligation chocolate), given as a polite gesture to male colleagues or friends, and Tomo-choco (Friendship chocolate), exchanged between friends. But here's the catch—men don’t just receive these chocolates. They’re expected to return the favour on March 14, known as White Day. Traditionally, the return gift should be three times the value of what they received, often in the form of chocolates, jewelry, or other thoughtful presents.
Ghana
While Japan’s Valentine’s day is all about gifting chocolates, Ghana takes it a step further by dedicating the entire day to celebrating cocoa. As one of the top cocoa producers in the world, Ghana officially declared February 14 as National Chocolate Day in 2005. Instead of focusing solely on romantic gestures, the day promotes the local cocoa industry and encourages people to enjoy Ghanaian-made chocolate products. The celebration is filled with chocolate-themed events, festivals, and special menus featuring cocoa-infused treats. Couples exchange Ghanaian chocolate as a symbol of love and national pride, blending sweet treats with celebration and culture.
Denmark
In Denmark, The Danes send playful love notes called Gaekkebrev. This translates to “joke letter” or “misleading letter”. The sender writes a light-hearted, humorous poem on folded paper that’s cut to reveal beautiful patterns when unfolded. But here comes the mysterious twist — the sender doesn’t sign the letter with their name. Instead, they sign the letter with a series of dots representing each letter of their name! If the recipient guesses the sender correctly, they may receive an Easter egg on Easter Sunday. Alongside the secret admirer tradition, The Danes also exchange the delicate snowdrops instead of the usual roses, thanks to an European legend. Legend has it that when snow first fell, it searched for a color to call its own. Among all the flowers, only the snowdrop was willing to share its pure white hue. Since then, the two have remained close companions, with snow sheltering the delicate flower, allowing it to bloom even before spring arrives.
Peru
If you think Denmark is the only country that swaps out romantic roses for a different flower, think again! In Peru, orchids take center stage, thanks to the country's vast variety of native species. These exotic and elegant blooms are embraced as a symbol of love, making them the perfect Valentine’s gift. Fun fact: In Peru, Valentine's Day is known as Día del Amor y la Amistad, meaning “Day of Love and Friendship”. Thus, the celebration isn’t just for couples — it also highlights friendships, making the day even more special. With this unique tradition, orchids fill markets, parks, and gift bouquets, adding a vibrant and colorful touch to the celebration.
Wales
While much of the world celebrates love on February 14, Wales does things a little differently. The Welsh honor romance a bit earlier, on January 25, known as St. Dwynwen’s Day, dedicated to their patron saint of lovers. Instead of the usual chocolates and roses, they exchange beautifully carved wooden love spoons. Dating back to the 17th century, these handcrafted spoons are decorated with symbols like hearts for love, horseshoes for luck, and keys to “unlock” one’s heart. Though modern couples in Wales may still mark February 14, St. Dwynwen’s Day remains a heartfelt celebration of love and craftsmanship, keeping this centuries-old tradition alive.
Conclusion
After exploring the unique traditions of different countries, it’s clear that Valentine’s Day is so much more than just giving presents. Whether it’s through secret admirer letters or the exchange of love spoons, each country adds its own special touch. These traditions remind us that Valentine’s Day isn’t just a date on the calendar — it’s a time to celebrate love, strengthen connections, and make lasting memories, no matter where you are in the world.
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